Comments on: Why YOU should stop smoking right now

By: stupid INLOVE

stupid INLOVE — Sat, 29 May 2010 23:47:00 +0000

Reading all these comments make me sad. My boyfriend is a smoker of both cigs and weed – which very much depresses me because of the harmful things both do to a person's body. My boyfriend doesn't understand that or maybe just doesn't want to understand it and to me, he doesn't care… I felt like asking him to choose between me and his drugs would make him quit but I didn't get the answer I expected… He definately chose the drugs and left me in the dust. His effects of smoking both is worrying me (the carelessness, forgetfulness, changes of behavior, "depemdancy," etc.) and I hate to loose him but I really don't think I can do anything to make him quit or realize what it's doing to him. What depresses me the most is that he knows I don't like to see him smoke or do drugs but he makes me watch and see him under that influence, but he doesn't care. He did say that he's willing to do anything for me, but he won't leave his smoking for anything because he likes it, he's a "smoker," and his family smokes too and he sees nothing wrong with them. I feel like I'm the stupid one, trying to stick around because I love him and want to be with him and I feel like if he doesn't quit (even temporarily) he won't get any further in his life or accomplishing his dreams – just because his family hasn't and the friends he hangs out with to smoke (which he does constantly) barely make a living but smoke their weed almost everyday if not every other day… He promised me he was going to try to quit and we made a deal (he gave a little and I gave a little) so I really hoped his smoking would stop. And today was his open house for graduation – he left his family and friends there for almost an hour to get a little high and to come back and say that our plans for this weekend are canceled because he's going to go camping with his family and a bunch of weed so he can have a fun weekend with a constant high. I asked, what about our deal and your promise? and he just looked at me and asked, well what was I suppose to tell you? and that really hurt. I feel like I shouldn't stay with him because what he does constantly hurts me and will him in the future, and I need some advice… Should I stay with him or let him go?

By: stupid INLOVE

stupid INLOVE — Sat, 29 May 2010 23:47:00 +0000

Reading all these comments make me sad. My boyfriend is a smoker of both cigs and weed – which very much depresses me because of the harmful things both do to a person’s body. My boyfriend doesn’t understand that or maybe just doesn’t want to understand it and to me, he doesn’t care… I felt like asking him to choose between me and his drugs would make him quit but I didn’t get the answer I expected… He definately chose the drugs and left me in the dust. His effects of smoking both is worrying me (the carelessness, forgetfulness, changes of behavior, “depemdancy,” etc.) and I hate to loose him but I really don’t think I can do anything to make him quit or realize what it’s doing to him. What depresses me the most is that he knows I don’t like to see him smoke or do drugs but he makes me watch and see him under that influence, but he doesn’t care. He did say that he’s willing to do anything for me, but he won’t leave his smoking for anything because he likes it, he’s a “smoker,” and his family smokes too and he sees nothing wrong with them. I feel like I’m the stupid one, trying to stick around because I love him and want to be with him and I feel like if he doesn’t quit (even temporarily) he won’t get any further in his life or accomplishing his dreams – just because his family hasn’t and the friends he hangs out with to smoke (which he does constantly) barely make a living but smoke their weed almost everyday if not every other day… He promised me he was going to try to quit and we made a deal (he gave a little and I gave a little) so I really hoped his smoking would stop. And today was his open house for graduation – he left his family and friends there for almost an hour to get a little high and to come back and say that our plans for this weekend are canceled because he’s going to go camping with his family and a bunch of weed so he can have a fun weekend with a constant high. I asked, what about our deal and your promise? and he just looked at me and asked, well what was I suppose to tell you? and that really hurt. I feel like I shouldn’t stay with him because what he does constantly hurts me and will him in the future, and I need some advice… Should I stay with him or let him go?

By: Quit FAST!

Quit FAST! — Sun, 17 May 2009 00:19:00 +0000

smoking is never good. you people say that your lungs can clean themselves, which is true but they can't always keep up to the amount your smoking.! Quitting is hard,and while your quitting you may not feel the best but in the end it's worth it. You'll have a cleaner happier life.!!!

By: Quit FAST!

Quit FAST! — Sun, 17 May 2009 00:19:00 +0000

smoking is never good. you people say that your lungs can clean themselves, which is true but they can’t always keep up to the amount your smoking.! Quitting is hard,and while your quitting you may not feel the best but in the end it’s worth it. You’ll have a cleaner happier life.!!!

By: ben

ben — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:25:00 +0000

That's not true, although it certainly differs from person to person. I'm currently in the process of quitting, and although I've never done heroin, nor have I had to kick a heroin habit, I'm sure quitting cigarettes is much easier than quitting heroin. For the record, it's not that easy either (to quit cigarettes), but think of the HABIT as a stupid, weak, monkey that continues to whisper in your ear, "I hear it's harder to quit cigarettes than to quit heroin…"

By: ben

ben — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:25:00 +0000

That’s not true, although it certainly differs from person to person. I’m currently in the process of quitting, and although I’ve never done heroin, nor have I had to kick a heroin habit, I’m sure quitting cigarettes is much easier than quitting heroin. For the record, it’s not that easy either (to quit cigarettes), but think of the HABIT as a stupid, weak, monkey that continues to whisper in your ear, “I hear it’s harder to quit cigarettes than to quit heroin…”

By: donnod

donnod — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 04:32:00 +0000

jee my sister has 3 a day and been doing it for 4 years

boy shes stuffed

By: donnod

donnod — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 04:32:00 +0000

jee my sister has 3 a day and been doing it for 4 years

boy shes stuffed

By: Ash

Ash — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 06:49:00 +0000

People are so damn judgmental about smoking it's ridiculous. If people want to smoke they should be able to, to each his own lungs.

An addiction is an addiction, just like porn and coffee in the morning. Ever wondered what all that caffeine does to your brain activity?

And until you've done heroin or crack I wouldn't compare them to tobacco, asshole.

By: Ash

Ash — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 06:49:00 +0000

People are so damn judgmental about smoking it’s ridiculous. If people want to smoke they should be able to, to each his own lungs.

An addiction is an addiction, just like porn and coffee in the morning. Ever wondered what all that caffeine does to your brain activity?

And until you’ve done heroin or crack I wouldn’t compare them to tobacco, asshole.

By: mexiilexii

mexiilexii — Wed, 14 May 2008 05:49:00 +0000

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By: mexiilexii

mexiilexii — Wed, 14 May 2008 05:49:00 +0000

true true true!!! hehehehehe